Dolores Catania is pretty much the only one upset that her son Frankie is all grown up

Frankie Catania showing off his abs on an episode of "Watch What Happens Live"Charles Sykes | Bravo

Frankie Catania showing off his abs on an episode of “Watch What Happens Live”

Although Real Housewives of New Jersey star Dolores Catania is extremely proud of her son, Frankie, his 18th birthday was a bittersweet moment.

“I’m so proud of you in every way possible, but most of all your heart of gold for everyone,” the RHONJ newbie wrote this week. “The only complaint I have is YOU GREW UP.”

While we can’t blame her for being sad to see her son become a man, we have a feeling she might be the only one complaining about the budding actor’s new status as a legal adult. Dolores’s heartfelt birthday wish racked up over 100 comments, most of which along the lines of “finally!” and “he’s legal!”

The Frankie-hype is clearly warranted. The senior at Don Bosco Prep in Ramsey practically reinvented Zoolander’s classic “Blue Steel” look at his birthday dinner.

18th 🎂🎈🎉 #missingafewpeople

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And of course, there’s the whole abdominal situation…

Thanks 👍 @larrybpnyc

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…and his incredible fashion sense.

❤️❤️

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Happy birthday, Frankie!